I’m on Kaki duty this week in Fort Worth while my daughter and SIL are on vacation. Every morning I take my grandgirl to pre-school – same route, takes about 15 minutes, we’ve got it down!
This morning, there was an unexpected line of cars leaving the neighborhood, so I put it in Maps just to be sure I didn’t get caught up in something I couldn’t see. Sure enough, it took me a completely different way – weaving through neighborhoods I’ve never been through.
At one point, my Maps girl told me to turn left which felt completely counter-intuitive to my internal GPS. For a hot second I argued with her, and then she reminded me how directionally challenged I am and how that NEVER works out the way I think it will. 😂 I acquiesced and we got to school 2 minutes earlier than we usually do. Well done, Maps girl – well done. 👏
So of course now I’m thinking about the significance of this on so many other levels – how our ego jumps in to keep us on track when things are unfamiliar, usually taking us down a path that doesn’t work out very well. We can be writhing in emotional pain, reach out for help, and then just keep doing the same things over and over.
WHY DO WE DO THAT?
Because “familiar is predictable and predictable is safe”. That’s the ego’s mantra and it’s just doing what it believes is best.
At some point, we – our True self – has to do a reality check. We have to look honestly at whether or not what we’re doing is working for us, HAS worked for us is the past, and if the results are what we most desire. Or do we just keep settling for what we know (or think we know) and wondering why we always feel so stuck?
For a lot of people it’s the latter and that’s usually when they find me. They’ve had enough of JUST enough and they’re ready to get their life back. Emotional trauma or betrayal has dragged something painful to the surface and the familiar coping isn’t working, because this is at the root, not the surface. And that’s why this work WORKS. Because we start at the root.
If you know of what I speak, you’re in the right place and the Breakthrough Blueprint™ is the right direction. You fill out a short Discovery form, answer a few specific questions that help me see what you can’t, and within 48 hours I send you a personal video blueprint showing you where you’re actually stuck, the pattern that’s holding you there, and how to break through it for good.
I’m like your “Maps girl” – I see what you can’t see and guide you back to who you ARE.
You ready? You’re not here by accident, Love. I’ve got you.
