This has been on my head a lot lately, especially in this trust recession we’re living in right now.
There are people who think if you’re feeling stuck and something’s not shifting, you must be doing it wrong. That you should try harder, think differently, or just push yourself to move through it.
I had a coach ask me once, when I was resisting the direction they were steering me, “Do you think maybe you’re standing in your own way?”
I sat with the question and realized they were right – there was a part of me standing in my way…
…with her hand up, saying “No, Love – that way’s not true for you.”
She’s the one I needed to listen to – the part of me that knew me best.
That was a pivotal moment in coming back to myself – the discernment of my own inner-voice. That part of me wasn’t blocking, she was guiding.
That’s why this work is so important to me.
Because when you learn to abandon yourself to survive emotional pain and trauma – when you don’t know who or what to trust anymore – it’s not about moving on or pushing through or becoming someone new. It’s about reconnecting and relearning how to trust you – and coming all the way home to yourself.
And that might take a minute.
Take your time. Some of the best work happens in that space in-between.
With love ❤️
Kate A. Bares | Soul Integration Method™
“You’re not broken. You’re coming home to yourSelf.” ~ Kate
